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It has become
a common thing when most of teenagers have had boyfriend or girlfriend.
However, there are still many teenagers that cons of having boyfriend or
girlfriend considering the benefits of it.
Many people
think that having a boyfriend or girlfriend can become a motivator for them.
Not only in studying, a boyfriend or girlfriend can also motivate them in doing
something or reaching our dreams. The presence of a special person will
encourage us to do something.
Having a
person that is very close to us make us freely
to share our peoblems. A good boyfriend or girlfriend will give us an
advice or some solutions. By sharing our problem, we can decrease our burden
too.
In addition,
people who has boyfriend or girlfriend are considered that they have a good
interaction. People who has a good interaction can attract many people and make
other feel comfort when beside him or her.
On the other hand,
many people also think that having a boyfriend or girlfriend just wasting the
time. They should provide more time for their boyfriend or girlfriend beside of
their study or other useful thing. It also disturb the concentration when they
are studying.
Furthermore,
if we can’t control or manage ourselves, our boyfriend or girlfriend can
influence us to do bad things such as free sex or other criminal action. These
effects can decrease the moral of teenagers nowadays.
Considering
pros and cons above, our choice to have a boyfriend or girlfriend should be
thought furthermore. Many people think that by having a boyfriend, we can be
motivated. Nevertheless, there are still many people believed that it just
waste the time. So, it just depends on our choice how to choose the best.