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It has become a common thing when most of teenagers have had boyfriend or girlfriend. However, there are still many teenagers that cons of having boyfriend or girlfriend considering the benefits of it.

Many people think that having a boyfriend or girlfriend can become a motivator for them. Not only in studying, a boyfriend or girlfriend can also motivate them in doing something or reaching our dreams. The presence of a special person will encourage us to do something.

Having a person that is very close to us make us freely  to share our peoblems. A good boyfriend or girlfriend will give us an advice or some solutions. By sharing our problem, we can decrease our burden too.

In addition, people who has boyfriend or girlfriend are considered that they have a good interaction. People who has a good interaction can attract many people and make other feel comfort when beside him or her.

On the other hand, many people also think that having a boyfriend or girlfriend just wasting the time. They should provide more time for their boyfriend or girlfriend beside of their study or other useful thing. It also disturb the concentration when they are studying.

Furthermore, if we can’t control or manage ourselves, our boyfriend or girlfriend can influence us to do bad things such as free sex or other criminal action. These effects can decrease the moral of teenagers nowadays.

Considering pros and cons above, our choice to have a boyfriend or girlfriend should be thought furthermore. Many people think that by having a boyfriend, we can be motivated. Nevertheless, there are still many people believed that it just waste the time. So, it just depends on our choice how to choose the best.